How do I handle seating at counter-style bars

Counter seating etiquette

Counter bars are a staple in Tokyo and offer a close-up view of the bartender’s craft. Proper etiquette helps maintain a respectful and enjoyable environment.

Seat behavior:

  • Wait to be seated or acknowledged; don’t sit in an open spot without a nod from the bartender.
  • Keep belongings compact and off the counter.
  • Avoid leaning on the bar or placing elbows on the service area.

Ordering and interaction:

  • Be concise when ordering to keep the flow moving, but feel free to ask about the process or ingredients.
  • Don’t monopolize the bartender’s time if others are waiting—ask for a brief recommendation and order.

Payment and tipping:

  • Pay when you’re ready to leave; counter bars often expect payment at the end.
  • Instead of tipping, express thanks and compliment the bartender.

Respectful behavior at the counter creates a better experience for everyone and often leads to more thoughtful service.