How do I order something off-menu or ask for a surprise cocktail

Asking for an off-menu or surprise cocktail

Bartenders often enjoy being creative. To request a unique drink without a menu, provide a few short preferences and let the bartender interpret them.

How to ask:

  • Give base spirit: “Surprise me with something gin-based.”
  • Provide flavor cues: “Citrusy and light” or “herbal and slightly bitter.”
  • Include constraints: “No dairy,” “low sugar,” or “alcohol-free.”

What to expect:

  • A custom cocktail tailored to your instructions—this can be a great way to sample a bartender’s signature.
  • If you’re unsure, ask for a tasting portion first when possible.

Etiquette:

  • Be respectful of the bartender’s time—custom drinks take effort.
  • If you loved the drink, ask for the name or save it to mention on return visits.

This approach makes for a personalized experience and often results in memorable, one-of-a-kind cocktails.