How do I tip or show appreciation in Tokyo bars

Tipping and appreciation customs

Tipping is not customary in Japan and can even cause confusion. Exceptional service is already included in the price and in the culture of hospitality. Instead of tipping, use these polite alternatives to show appreciation.

Ways to show gratitude:

  • Say “Arigatou gozaimasu” (thank you) or offer a sincere verbal compliment.
  • Leave a positive online review or mention the bar to friends and staff.
  • Support the bar by purchasing a round or ordering a specialty cocktail.

If you feel strongly about leaving extra money:

  • It’s better to buy a small souvenir or a bottle if the bar sells them.
  • Some high-end bars accept tips for special services but confirm discreetly first.

Cultural note:

  • Japanese hospitality (omotenashi) prioritizes service without monetary tips. Polite behavior and appreciation are valued more than cash gratuities.

A heartfelt thank-you, respectful demeanor, and return visits convey appreciation better than attempting to tip.