Basic bar manners to follow
Good manners help create a pleasant experience for you and others. Tokyo bars, whether tiny counters or hotel lounges, appreciate politeness and consideration.
Core etiquette:
- Be quiet and considerate: keep conversation volume moderate, especially in intimate bars.
- Don’t hover or pressure the bartender: wait to be acknowledged and avoid calling out loudly.
- Order at the bar if standing; be ready to order when you reach the counter.
- Pay promptly: some bars prefer cash while many accept cards—ask if unsure.
Seating and behavior:
- If the bar is busy, avoid occupying seats for long stretches without ordering more.
- Respect no-photo policies; some bars and regulars prefer privacy.
- Follow any posted rules, such as time limits or dress codes.
A courteous, calm demeanor goes a long way in Tokyo; bartenders typically mirror the respect you show them.